Emotional or psychological abuse is defined as the infliction of anguish, extreme pain, or discomfort through verbal or nonverbal acts.
Don't think verbal acts is limited to being called stupid or foolish by your sibling or who ever.
Verbal abuse includes
1.Being reminded always of when or how you failed in a particular life endeavor. For example, you failed an external exams and your family keeps humiliating you by reminding you always that you are a failure and can amount to nothing.
This can also happen in relationships, where maybe one partner appears more successful than the other, and constantly throws it to the face of the other partner. He/she always reminds their partner of how lucky they are to have successful persons like them.
2. Verbal abuse is real and the reason some youths soils their hands in the bid to make money quick especially when his partner, parents and friends insults and humiliate him because he doesn't control money to perform his duties.
Some girls prostitutes because of verbal abuse from their mothers. Mothers are always fond of using this words "don't you know what your mates are doing?" "Haven't you seen what your mates have achieved?"
"Ngozi bought wrapper for her mom, all you do is eat and expect from your mom"
most youths has heard this words or something close to it, if such a person is not guided he could do anything just to prove to their parents that they are responsible and not useless as assumed.
3.Verbal abuse comes to play when your partner tells you words like " you are getting fat, if you don't control it I will abandon you for a look for a slimmer person". This is where ladies begins to loose their self worth and tries to starve in order to suit their partner, please your partner can drive to hell if he so wishes because he does not even deserve you.
Am not saying you shouldn't watch your weight but let him not humiliate you in process . Some partners might say "you are short, therefore you must put on heels whenever we are going out" I laugh because that's arrant bullshit and funny enough some ladies still find themselves stuck to such men.
Abeg the guy should look for the nearest transformer to hug. Some girls even continually reminds their partner of how richer her ex- boyfriends are, of how guys out there lavished money on their gals etc. Dear guys, such a girl should make use of the door in your life because she can destroy you.
Am sorry for sounding so harsh but its true. Sometimes you got into a relationship with dreams and a sound mind but with time, you find out that your ego and self worth has been broken and your life seems dependent on your partner's.
Does Your partner insult you before strangers? Does he/she ridicule you in public or with his friends. Do they make you feel that they are too good for you?
Then you must follow this weeks post, it will help you so much to understand why they treat you the way they do and how to get a deserving life.
Other verbal abuse are threats and blackmails
Non verbal acts includes
1. Silent treatment: ie being ignored, Its almost in every relationship. Infarct I do it at times. When am offended I just ignore the person, it is wrong.
Don't think verbal acts is limited to being called stupid or foolish by your sibling or who ever.
Verbal abuse includes
1.Being reminded always of when or how you failed in a particular life endeavor. For example, you failed an external exams and your family keeps humiliating you by reminding you always that you are a failure and can amount to nothing.
This can also happen in relationships, where maybe one partner appears more successful than the other, and constantly throws it to the face of the other partner. He/she always reminds their partner of how lucky they are to have successful persons like them.
2. Verbal abuse is real and the reason some youths soils their hands in the bid to make money quick especially when his partner, parents and friends insults and humiliate him because he doesn't control money to perform his duties.
Some girls prostitutes because of verbal abuse from their mothers. Mothers are always fond of using this words "don't you know what your mates are doing?" "Haven't you seen what your mates have achieved?"
"Ngozi bought wrapper for her mom, all you do is eat and expect from your mom"
most youths has heard this words or something close to it, if such a person is not guided he could do anything just to prove to their parents that they are responsible and not useless as assumed.
3.Verbal abuse comes to play when your partner tells you words like " you are getting fat, if you don't control it I will abandon you for a look for a slimmer person". This is where ladies begins to loose their self worth and tries to starve in order to suit their partner, please your partner can drive to hell if he so wishes because he does not even deserve you.
Am not saying you shouldn't watch your weight but let him not humiliate you in process . Some partners might say "you are short, therefore you must put on heels whenever we are going out" I laugh because that's arrant bullshit and funny enough some ladies still find themselves stuck to such men.
Abeg the guy should look for the nearest transformer to hug. Some girls even continually reminds their partner of how richer her ex- boyfriends are, of how guys out there lavished money on their gals etc. Dear guys, such a girl should make use of the door in your life because she can destroy you.
Am sorry for sounding so harsh but its true. Sometimes you got into a relationship with dreams and a sound mind but with time, you find out that your ego and self worth has been broken and your life seems dependent on your partner's.
Does Your partner insult you before strangers? Does he/she ridicule you in public or with his friends. Do they make you feel that they are too good for you?
Then you must follow this weeks post, it will help you so much to understand why they treat you the way they do and how to get a deserving life.
Other verbal abuse are threats and blackmails
Non verbal acts includes
1. Silent treatment: ie being ignored, Its almost in every relationship. Infarct I do it at times. When am offended I just ignore the person, it is wrong.
2. Abandonment from a love one
3. Neglect from loved ones especially if the neglected is a minor or helpless elder. Please don't neglect your parents, it can break them down.
4. Harassment etc.
EFFECTS OF physical and emotional Abuse.
To be continued
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ReplyDeleteThanks Sridhar, i appreciate all your support. We need to work in accordance to limit or bring to climaxe any kind of child molestation, and women abuse.
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