Tuesday, 22 November 2016

Quality of a woman

1). Never raise your voice for any reason to your husband. Its a sign of disrespect.

2). Don't expose your husband's weaknesses to your family and friends. It will bounce back at you.You are each other's keeper.

3). Never use attitudes and moods to communicate to your husband, you never know how your husband will interpret them. Defensive women don't have a happy home.

4). Never compare your husband to other men, you've no idea what their life is all about. If you attack his Ego, his Love for you will diminish.

5). Never ill treat your husband's friends because you don't like them, the person who's supposed to get rid of them is your husband.

6). Never forget that your husband married you, not your maid or anyone else. Do your duties.

7). Never assign anyone to give attention to your husband, people may do everything else but your husband is your own responsibility.

8). Never blame your husband if he comes back home empty handed. Rather encourage him.

9). Never be a wasteful wife, your husband's sweat is too precious to be wasted.

10). Never pretend to be sick for the purpose of denying your husband sex. You must give it to him how he wants it. Sex is very important to Men, if you keep denying him, it is a matter of time before another woman takes over that duty. No man can withstand sex starvation for too long (even the anointed ones)

12). Never answer for your husband in public opinion polls, let him handle what is directed to him although he may answer for you in public opinion polls.

13). Never shout or challenge your husband in front of children. Wise Women don't do that.

14). Don't forget to check the smartness of your husband before he checks out.

15). Never allow your friends to be too close to your husband.

16). Never be in a hurry in the bathroom and on the dressing table. Out there your husband is always surrounded by women who took their time on their looks.

17). Your parents or family or friends do not have the final say in your marriage. Don't waste your time looking up to them for a final word. You must Leave if you want to Cleave.

18). Never base your love on monetary things. Will you still submit to him even if you earn more money than him?

19). Don't forget that husbands want attention and good listeners, never be too busy for him. Good communication is the bed rock of every happy home.

20). If your idea worked better than his, never compare yourself to him. Its always team work.

21). Don't be too judgmental to your husband. No man wants a Nagging wife.

22). A lazy wife is a careless wife. She doesn't even know that her body needs a bath.

23). Does your husband like a kind of cooked food? Try to change your cooking. No man jokes with food.

24). Never be too demanding to your husband, enjoy every moment, resource as it comes.

25). Make a glass of water the very first welcome to your husband and everyone entering your home. Sweetness of attitude is true beauty.

26). Don't associate with women who have a wrong mental attitude about marriage.

27). Your marriage is as valuable to you as the value that you give it. Recklessness is unacceptable.

28). Fruit of the womb is a blessing from the Lord, love your children and teach them well.

29). You are never too old to influence your home. Never reduce your care for your family for any reason.

30). A prayerful wife is a better equipped wife,pray always for your husband and family.

Send it to every woman you know. You never know whose marriage you are about to save. And to every man so that the women in their lives can be better guided,don't take it personal.

Saturday, 28 March 2015

INEC WEBSITE HARKED

INEC website was harked by a team called Nigerian Cyber Army, though the website was restored after two hours.

Note, the message dropped by the harkers, I quote "
Sorry xD your site has been stamped by teaM Nigeria Cyber Army.
FEEL some shame admin.

Security is just an illusion

Remember US GREETINGS OF PEACE TO CITIZEN
OF NIGERIA FROM TEAM NCA
NIGERIANS

No Body Can Give You Freedom No
Body Can Give You Equality Or Justice If You Are

A Man/Woman YOU TAKE IT

Its 2015 Elections And We Are Here AGain But

This Time In A Different Form, APC Claimed They
Hacked Into INEC DATABASE But We Own The

DATABASE Long Before Now So No Worries

No  Fear To All NIGERIANs…GO And Cast Your Vote
And We Assure You That Your Vote Must Count
Because We Are The Kings Of The NIgerRian
CYber SPACE.

NOTE: WE GAT ACCESS TO OTHER HIGH
RANKING NIGERIAN GOVERNMENT SERVERS,

BUT WE ARE NOT HERE FOR THAT TODAY!.

INEC DONT TRY TO RIG BECAUSE WE HAVE BEEN

WATCHING YOU DAY AND NIGHT FOR MONTHS

NOW BUT DONT BE SCARED WE MEAN NO HARM

COS IF YOU ATTEMPT TO RIG YOU WILL PAY!!

WE ARE THE THE VOICE OF THE YOUTHs!!

WE ALSO USE THIS MEDIUM TO ADVICE ALL
POLITICAL PARTIES: WHO PRICE GO PAY.

WE DO NOT FORGIVE

WE DO NOT FORGET

EXPECT US!

ENUGU BOMBING

A bomb exploded at WTC secondary and primary school in Enugu state, the first bomb exploded without much sound at 7:39 am.

The bomb was ploted in a Honda car with a registration number KUJ  971  LB. LATER, three of the bomb  was detonated, it was confirmed that the saloon Honda car was still carrying other explosive devices.

According to Batur, who said that the purpose of those men was not known, though lives were not lost.

Read more, INEC WEBSITE HARKED

Tuesday, 24 March 2015

DIED OF ABUSE

To little sister who died of abuse

Hush, little sister
Please don't cry
I wish I could be there
To sing you a lullaby
I can see your arms
Bloodied and bruised

That's strange, little sister
Mine were like that too
I know you scream
When Daddy's there
Hush, little sister

I know you're scared
I can see the way
He's hurting you
I'm sorry, little sister
He did that to me too
I know that people

Ignore what's going on at home
That makes me angry, little sister
You shouldn't have to be alone
Hey, little sister
You want to know why I'm not
there?

It's a sad story, little sister
But people should care
You see, little sister
One day Daddy got high
You were asleep in your crib
So you didn't hear my cry

He screamed at me
And smashed my head against
the door
While you slept, little sister
I died on the floor
You know, little sister

I don't think that I would have
died
If someone had only bothered
To listen to my cries
But hush, little sister
Daddy's coming home
Quick, get into bed

You don't want him to find you
alone
I'm sorry little sister
He's in a bad mood
Run while you can
Uh oh little sister
He's lifting his belt

Scream while you can, little sister
Call for help
Hush little sister
You don't need to cry
No one can hurt you
You're in my arms tonight.

From a boy who survived abuse but lost his only sister to their father's brutality.

Posted by Green Inspiration.
Stop Abuse.

PHYSICAL MOLESTATION


The purpose of this exposition is to enable us identify when we are being molested and when we are molesting others knowingly or unknowingly.

Physical molestation is defined as the
use of physical force that may result in bodily injury, physical pain, or impairment. This includes all forms of slapping, hitting, kicking, shaking, punching, force feeding, pushing and shoving from a person to another.

It also comprises of all shades of sexual assault, ranging from forceful undue sexual exposure of a minor e.g. Forceful exposure of a minor to adult films. Sexual assault also means RAPE i.e. A man forcefully having sex with his wife, a man raping his maid, a man raping his daughter, a boy forcefully having carnal knowledge of his sister, cousin, female friends.

 Funny enough, women/girls also participates in raping activities, they rape both boys and gals; teaching the girls lesbianism and most times you find out that your female house help or aunts forceful let your male kids into the world of un-quench-able thirst of sex.

To be sincere, if you fell under any of these categories be it that it is in the past or you are still experiencing it, then you need to stay tuned to this week's post as it will help you live above the scars and also help you speak up if you are still suffering from physical torment. whether from mother, father, boyfriend, girlfriend, husband, wife, master, etc.

Sometimes your tormentor makes you feel you deserve all the abuse he bestowed on you, he also tells you that they re the only people in the world who can tolerate you. But if you follow me down this week, you will soon find out who deserves who and who deserves what.

The second type of molestation is the type that most people don't even know they are suffering from and because its unnoticed, the damaging effect can not be overemphasized.

In this 21st century where the law speaks for the physically abused, no law has been made to protect the victim of emotional or psychological molestation.

Emotional or psychological molestation

To be continued
Green Inspiration.

Thursday, 19 March 2015

A lady and the father

lady was driving along with her father.They came upon a storm, and the young lady asked her father, What should i do? He said "keep driving".. Cars began to pull over to the side, the storm was getting worse.

"What should I do." The young lady asked?"Keep driving," her father replied.

On up a few feet, she noticed that eighteen wheelers were also pulling over. She told her dad, "I must pull over, I can barely see ahead.

It is terrible, and everyone is pulling over!"Her father told her, "Don't give up, just keep driving!"

Now the storm was terrible, but she never stopped driving, and soon she could see a little more clearly. After a couple of miles she was again on dry land, and the sun came out.Her father said, "Now you can pull over and get out."She said "But why now?"

He said "When you get out, look back at all the people that gave up and are still in the storm,because you never gave up, your storm is now over.

This is a testimony for anyone who is going through "hard times".Just because everyone else, even the strongest, gives up.You don't have to...if you keep going,soon your storm will be over and the sun will shine upon your face again.

This story touched me! I hope it touched you! Never give up,because GOD will never give up on you, good morning dearies

HOUSE RENT

Please read & share

A man rented a house and moved in with his family. After 2yrs his rent was increased from 400,000 to 500,000. He didn't complain because he liked the house.

The following year he couldn't come up with the money and the agent was on his neck. The wife saw what her husband was passing through and decided to borrow him the money dat he will pay back later. The husband was indeed very happy. He paid back the cash when he got it.

Two yrs later, the rent was increased to 700,000 and the man became upset. So he begged the agent to introduce him to the landlord so that he could have a talk with him but the agent bluntly refused. The man decided to do an investigation to uncover who the landlord is. The revelation of his investigation really shook him - the house belongs to his wife.

My question is this: If you were the man, what would you do? And if you were the woman, what would you say to your husband?

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