TEEN MOTHERS


Teenagers are considered to be in a bloom of youth when sexual desires are strong, report shows that teen mother is as a result of broken home. It has been the wish of every teenager to have a real family and an enjoyable childhood.


Most young girls become unmarried mother as a result of sexual abuse and rape, causing emotional pain and destructive attitude, Sometimes we become victim of Circumstances because of being too confidence and curiosity. Some become ignorance of the result of sexual activity thinking of missing out from sex enjoyment.


There are chances of becoming pregnant when you engage in sex, and it has been a shocking event when you found out that you are pregnant, these days having a Child out of Wedlock does not have the same stigma compared to those days because it's now seen as a normal thing.


                                                           STORM OF EMOTION



According to academy of child and adolescent, teen pregnant can cause the following:

Shock

Anger

Guilt

Denial

Because of fear and shame teenager's who are pregnant find it hard to discuss the matter with the parents.


                                                                   SOME FACTS



In U.S before age 20, five in 10 girls Become pregnant, over 956,000 pregnant report annually.


50 percent Of teenagers become teen mother at age 18


High rate of neglect and abuse of children of teen mothers


5 of 11 teen mothers finished high school at age 18


80% of teen mothers are not married by the father of their child, while 20% are married


Children of teen mothers are born prematurely.


                                               THIS CAN CAUSE PROBLEM SUCH AS:

Risk of death

Low birth

Blindness

Chronic illness

Deafness

Mental illness

Dyslexia

Mental hyperactivity

                                                             CHALLENGES

As young as a child with pregnant, she can face adult decision and responsibilities in her life. Anxiety and fear as cause some to think of adoption or abortion. However, If you get married at that moment it can save you the shame and embarrassment, yet pain and suffering result from early and premature marriage.


Parents may help you out in spit of they worries as regards your failure, most times they blame themselves of your action. Well, just know that the pain and sham last fore a while and it ends if your friends and families are supportive. Your parent's may choose to provide you of baby sitters, and baby's cloths. Do not fail to show appreciation vocally.


Moreover, its advisable you learn about baby's care, health and nutrition.to make a living and escape from poverty, malnutrition, and bad housing , learn new skill and save money to get baby things, shop at secondhand store where you can get things cheap. Remember you can't avoid completely the stress of teen pregnant yet you can succeed by being patient.


Parents are to give pro-pare information about sex and consequences related to a premature sex, your discipline, and instruction from infancy can save your child from being a victim of teen mother.Next article discusses about marriage storms.

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