What you need from your mate?

What are the qualities you expect from your partner? List then out! Your own qualities too list it down. How you can support to achieve successful marriage. List it down too. 

A bad or a good husband, which do you choose to be?
Are you a nagging type?
Are you cheerful?

You see, marriage can’t change you, being sensitive overly and proud will not change if you are married. Best advice is to make the vital changes now before you can go in to marriage.
Look at this few things about marriage.

(Customs) legal customs 

1)  Bride – price: This is where the grooms family is to pay in some money to the groom family

2)  Polygamy: Men allow to marry more than one wife. 

3)  Trial marriage: claims of living together before marriage in other to be more compatible. 

Read what the bible say about these practices 

Bride price: Proverb 20:21 – 1 Corth. 6:10
Polygamy: I Corth. 7:2
Trial marriage: 1 Corth. 6:18, Hebrew 13:4   

Note for man and woman 

Wisdom: is an element of personal character that helps one to distinguish the wise from the universe.

Wisdom is seen as a true crown of beauty. Modesty/soundness of mind can only help you get that wisdom, the crown of beauty.

Woman: should learn to give attention to the secret person of heart not appearance physically.

Man: should treat woman in a respectful and kind way, man should also learn how to:
1.  Make decisions
2.  Take charge of duties
3.  Be humble and modest.
Without this, be ready face problem.

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