CHALLENGES TRAINING A CHILD












Bringing up a child is really difficulties to succeed, in bringing up your child , you need to have self control. As you wish to get the necessary guidance to protect your child you need to be careful, paying good attention to yourself, regarding of how you exercise your discipline.
Following bible direction can really help you succeed in training up your child.

PARENTAL EXAMPLE 

Parental example is necessary, how? You should be a good exemplary to your children, the bible made mention of role respecting child training. It says, do you, however, the one teaching someone else, not teach yourself? The one preaching not to steal, do you steal? You, the one saying do not commit adultery do you? So, your example matters, how you discipline and how you behave can affect your children.

If you do not set good example in your conduct and speech, your children will conclude that you are nothing but an hypocritical person.

Acting and speaking honesty will motivate your children to imitate you, avoid abusive languages, and speak with respect to each one.

COMMUNICATION SPACE

When husband and the wife own a job, however leaving no time for family close communication with the children.

WHAT TO DO 

The best opportunities for family conversation is during house chores together, you can discuss about the most important things in the family.

·  Loving discipline is most important.

·  Let your discipline fit the mistake done, instead your child will resist you.

NOTE

v   Control your anger  
v   Do not be overreacted 
v   Control your emotions.

Give discipline at the right time, when something wrong is done by the children. Make sure you enforce the discipline and punishment, at this time, make known to them why he or she is being punished.

RECREATION
 
Wholesome activity, spending time outside home with your children is vital when it comes to child development. It boosts family ties and security. 

ACTIVITIES

·        Bicycle riding
·        Tennis
·        Volley ball
·        Feeling of nature.

GOOD FRIENDS 

Help your children make the right friend, remember the bible say that the one working with a wise person will become wise but he that is working with a bad person will fare  badly. 

One single bad friend can spoil all your effort bringing up your children in a discipline manner.

So, who are the friends of your child? People always says, tell me your friend and I will tell you who you are.

Teach your child that a good friend can be made not only from the age limit but also with older people too, proverbs 22:6 says to parent, train up a boy according to the way for him, even when he grow old he will not turn away from it.

So, parent should apply the above counsel in other for their children to grow up responsible adults.

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