THINGS YOU MUST KNOW TO AVOID A BAD MARRIAGE


In life we face one challenge  and that is who to marry, not just who to marry but the right person. This is really vital because if you miss out and  get married to the wrong person, you will suffer for it. If you get it right then you will enjoy it. A bad marriage can affect every other area of your life and people arroud you.

This issue is really vital because many people who has married the wrong person today are wishing to be once more single again in other to make the right choice. If you are single please don't just be in a hurry to get married, i have written many articles about how and the best opportunity to prepare for it.

According to k.S BENSON, he says that for two people to come together to live in peace and harmony, they must agree spiritually, mentally and physically. Just like an elephant can not marry an ant so also a believer can not marry an unbeliever,  think of it an elephant marries an ant how would they live?  If a goat marries a fish where would they meet? You must look for a Godly man or a Godly woman to marry, nothing can beat this.

Dose evil exist? Yes they primary target is the family,  he knows that everyone belongs to a family and if he can make two wrong people meet then he would succeed in affecting the community of a family. The pressure in a wrong marriage is far worse. They is always a right person for you to marry but you must set your priorities right, what do you need in a woman? What do you need in a man?

Marriage is not about what you want, it is about who you need, that will make you better while you make him better. It is about companionship, that is why you must know your purpose before you get married. What about praying before you choose.

God knows the best person for you, it is only wise to seek his will. Don't marry for sex. Don't marry because you are of age, don't marry because you are getting old, don't marry because you are lonely, don't marry because you need someone to support you financially, don't marry because you mistakenly got pregnant, don't marry because you don't want to lose the person, don't marry because of family pressures, don't marry because you like the idea of marriage, don't marry because all your friends are getting married.

But get married because you want to fulfill all the parameters. Get married because you want to be a help mate. As a man, get married because you want to fulfill your purpose. Get married because he or she is your BEST FRIEND.

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