In life we face one challenge, that is who to marry. This choice is so vital that if you miss it, you will suffer for it, if you get it right then you will enjoy it. A bad marriage can affect every other area of your life and people arroud you.

This issue is really vital, many people who are married are hoping to be single in life again in other to make the right choice again. If you are single please don't just be in a hurry to get married, i have written many articles about how and the best opportunity to prepare for it.

According to k.s BENSON, he says that for two people to come together to live in peace and harmony, they must agree spiritually, mentally and physically. Just like an elephant cannot marry an ant so also a believer cannot marry an unbeliever, still bible made mentioned off it an elephant marries an ant how would they live, if a goat marries a fish where would they meet? You must look for a Godly man or a Godly woman to marry, nothing can beat this.

 The devil's primary target is the family. He knows that everyone belongs to a family and if he can make two wrong people meet then he has succeeded affecting the community and nations negatively. Ignore your age and the pressure for a moment, the pressure in a wrong marriage is far worse. God has somebody for you but you must set your priorities right. What do you need in a woman? What do you need in a man?

 Marriage is not about what you want, it is about who you need, that will make you better while you make him better. It is about companionship. That is why you must know your purpose before you get married. Genesis 2:18.

 You must pray before you choose. God knows the best person for you, it is only wise to seek His will. It is very easy to know God's will when sex is not involved.

The moment sex is involved and you want to know His will then He will blank you out. Why? Because you have broken His first Law of NO SEX before marriage.

 If you have had sex in the past then you need to repent totally and stay away from each other for sometime then you can seek the face of God.

 Don't marry for sex, don't marry because you are of age, don't marry because you are getting old, don't marry because you are lonely, don't marry because you need someone to support you financially, don't marry because you mistakenly got pregnant, don't marry because you don't want to lose the person, don't marry because of family pressures, don't marry because you like the idea of marriage and admire every wedding gown you see, don't marry because all your friends are getting married.

 But get married because you want to fulfill all the all parameters. Get married because you want to be a help mate. As a man, get married because you want to fulfill your purpose. Get married because he or she is your BEST FRIEND.God will help you in choosing. Reason why violence against women is bad is the topic of the next article

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